You’ve probably come across all the articles online preaching about the wonderful benefits of solo travel and how it’s guaranteed to be one of the best experiences of your life. While some of this is true, there are two sides to every story.
In this article, we aim to give a more balanced view of solo adventures. Join us as we explore some of the realities travellers like us have faced on our own journeys.
You’ll have all the freedom in the world
Although this is a bold statement, it’s generally accurate. Of course, there are always some limitations, such as money and pre-booked flights, but travelling solo is likely to give you a taste of freedom like you’ve never had before and may never have again.
You plan the itinerary (if you want one). You choose the destinations. You decide what you do and don’t want to do. If you want a lazy day on the beach, you can have it. If somewhere isn’t captivating you, you can move on.
For some people, this freedom of choice can be overwhelming. It depends on what sort of person you are and how you like to spend your time.
You’ll return a different person
Solo travel can be transformative at any age. Putting yourself in unfamiliar surroundings, making new friends and finding your way from place to place develops independence and confidence that’s hard to come by in your usual routines.
You’ll be pushed so far out of your comfort zone and might not know where it is anymore. Trying new things and facing challenges are all part of travelling. The way you handle and overcome these situations will define who you are on your return.
Along with fresh perspectives on the world and life, the new you might be unrecognisable.
You’ll have plenty of time to fill
People always imagine the highs of travelling the world – seeing the stunning beaches, city streets and iconic landmarks. But these moments represent the minority of your overall experience. You’ll have a lot of time spare in between.
It’s your choice what you do with this time. Whether it’s a few hours hanging around your hostel or hotel before bed or a spare day where you have nothing planned at all, having a go-to activity can help you avoid boredom. This could be anything from learning the ropes of CFD trading to making your way through a stack of books on your Kindle.
Find something that makes those down moments more enjoyable and you’ll have a much more complete travel experience.
You’ll have your fair share of lonely moments
There are always people to meet wherever you go, be it other travellers or locals. But every solo adventurer deals with loneliness at some point. Even if there are plenty of people around you, you can still feel isolated.
Missing family and friends is never easy and is a common reason why people cut their trips short. Sometimes, a video or voice call might be enough to reconnect with home. For others, it’s not.
In these moments, remember why you’re on this adventure but don’t be afraid to make the right decision for you.